So… the holiest of holies for Chicago Leather, IML weekend – all done. And this weekend immediately is Power Exchange Summit, with a little side trip to Cleveland on Saturday night to meet/greet with the Ohio Master/slave contestants (and hopefully a winning couple as well!).
There’s a fun little hashtag going around on Facebook/Twitter among the leatherfolk involved in producing IML – #wenapinJune. Angie and I are thinking for us, it will be #wenapafterMarch2015 – that’s when we step aside.
Today was a rough day, dropping after a big emotional event and then the ramp up/preparation for what’s coming up. Tonight will have a little ritual to keep us connected.
One thought I did want to share today that was actually related to M/s, because the majority of the day was about as non-M/s as it can get with all the things crowding in…
A question on a Fetlife group asked what our (Masters) favorite service from our slave is. The answers you might expect: “blowjobs” or “everything”, but it got me thinking of a quote I saw long ago and how I feel about my favorite service. So here was my answer:
It’s the services where she has to struggle, when it’s not easy, when she’s tired and would much rather not take down the laundry, or go do this or that, it’s when it’s something that makes her grow, it’s those moments when I see her surrender to me and put my desires and my wishes above hers.
No other service gets me (nearly as) hard or satisfies me nearly as much as those moments.