We have always had sex/leathersex as a huge part of our relationship. For us, sex and S/m are a big part of what drew us together and what serves as rocket fuel for our lives. One of the big ways we will reconnect after an ebb is through reconnecting in the place where those dark emotions and pure energy brings us closer to each other and the whole.
When I sat down to write this, I had thought we weren’t playing that much at events but I guess we are. (Unlike swimming, for those of you playing the home game, our streak is at almost a year of traveling to hotels and not making it to the pool…) That makes me happy, and it helps to have those moments, even if brief. I purchased a travel flogger so I wouldn’t lose my old, valuable floggers that have history.
This weekend at SELF, I purchased a customized mop from Agreeable Agony, one of the vendors here. It’s a great addition to the tool chest. 🙂