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Today was the MAsT: Greater Chicago meeting today – our chapter meets on the first Sunday of the month. The topic was on “BDSM and M/s-D/s” and how does S/m fit in one’s dynamic?
It was synchronicity that we had this topic today as slave angie and I have been redoing our “Leather & M/s” class and part of the revamp is talking about our sex/leathersex and how that fits into our dynamic and what that looks like. The discussion was on an ebb we’ve been experiencing in our leathersex – with the travel, with the schedule, with the focus much on presenting and sharing and doing the things for our title year, it’s been hard to maintain a consistent flow with our leathersex. The minds are willing, but the energy and bodies are tired. When we’re looking at a down day, if it’s sleep or flogging, lately, it’s been the sleep that is winning.
We get that this is temporary, but it is an ebb and the question we chewed on was how to explain how sex and leather are integral to our M/s and yet right now, this is an area that is ebbing.
Still chewing on that, but we’ve been through ebbs before and we know that this is temporary, that this is a bit of what we signed up for and that we do take advantage of moments – we’ve just not had too many in about a month.