[M/s 365] Starting several new journeys

Today starts our new project – sharing a year in the life of a Master/slave couple, one day at a time. One thought, or one huge post – maybe a thought, something we encountered together, something we discovered. Master/slave relationships take work, take time and take attention… and we want to share that with you. One day at a time. For a year.

SAMSUNGSo … new journeys. And on that note, we have another new journey that we are starting today… that of International Master/slave 2014. This past weekend, we competed with 3 other Master/slave couples to earn the privilege to serve as titleholders in the Master/slave community. It was an amazing weekend, and one that will take a few days or weeks to fully process (and recover from!). This opportunity means we’ll be traveling as much, if not more, as we have been in the past year, and we’ll be working very hard to learn, share and teach with as many of you as we can. We may be done with the journey of “contestants” but now we’ve started a new journey as titleholders who will go out and see what the year will bring.

We’ve always felt it was important for us to constantly grow, to constantly challenge ourselves and better ourselves. To see the growth that slave angie has shown in her journey to this point… from someone who would almost throw up when handed a microphone to speak in front of others… to last night when she stood on that stage and delivered a fantastic speech from her heart. I can’t begin to express how proud I am of her. The journey she’s taken within herself is as equal to the journey we’ve had together.

Being a Master/slave doesn’t have a final level, an ultimate destination, at least as far as we can tell. It’s a journey along the edge of our minds, hearts and souls that keeps going, with new vistas within ourselves.

And on that note, we’ll close out this first post… as we are exhausted and have a weekend of sleep to catch up on.

Master and slave 365


Awhile back, I had the pleasure to speak to Leon MonkeyFetish (@Monkeyfetish on Twitter) about his “Rope 365” project he had. His vision was to do a rope tie each day for 365 days in row and post them to his Twitter and Instagram feeds. He just completed that project in January. I had seen the posts and clicked on some of them, not being much of a rope guy, but I found the project concept interesting so I wanted to talk to him about it. It was a very interesting conversation, but what was interesting was to hear about how he looked at his rope work a bit differently now. (I’m reading between the lines here from his comments.) It looked like to me that he had become very mindful (and more skilled) in his rope work.

I’m not a stranger to blogging or to doing these sorts of projects, but it never occurred to me to do something like that as part of this blog. So, my slave and I discussed it (and still are discussing it) and we have come up with a rough plan of doing something similar, but from the perspective of what goes on in a Master/slave relationship for 365 days – what are our thoughts, our victories, our stumbles and our moments that reflect who we are? What if it’s 10 days in a row of “Life goes, had sex, served Master” sort of thing? (Answer – I’m sure there will be some thought you and I can write about.)

However, the chance to be that mindful of our journey, in that we would record it, and share it, intrigues both slave angie and I to no end.

So, as crazy as it sounds, we’re going to give it a try. We’re in the midst of our final preparations for the International Master/slave contest in Dallas TX next month, so we’ve decided that the best day to do this will be the immediate day after the contest – win or lose – we begin to record what our lives are like in an M/s relationship. That means on March 9th, the first post will go up.

We don’t know if this will equate to a post a day, or we “batch” them together, especially if traveling – that’s probably something we’re going to have to account for (possibly by email submissions from the phone, if needs be).

We’re both a bit nervous about this, as this will be a far more intimate look into us than my ramblings on Facebook are, and slave angie has never been much of one to put a lot of herself online. How will it look and what will we discover on our journey after IM/s?

We’re all going to find out.

Stay tuned.